The NDIS can feel like a lot when you are new to it. Loads of words, loads of forms, and everyone seems to speak a language you never signed up to learn. So here is a simple, friendly guide to getting started with one part of it: the social side of your plan.
This is the part that helps you get out, make mates and be part of your community. It is genuinely one of the best bits, and it should not be the confusing bit. Let us make it plain.
One thing up front, and we mean it. We are a social crew, not a plan manager or the NDIS. This is a friendly overview to help you find your feet, not advice on your specific plan. For that, your coordinator or plan manager is the right person, and we link the official sources below.

Start with the goals
Here is the thing that makes the whole NDIS click once you get it. Your plan is built around your goals. Everything hangs off them.
So if getting out, making mates or building confidence is something you or your person wants, that is worth having written into the plan as a goal. It does not need fancy wording. Something plain like "I want to attend a regular social activity to build confidence and make friends" does the job perfectly.
Why does this matter so early? Because funding tends to follow goals. A clear social goal makes it far easier to have the funding there to support it. Get the goal right and the rest gets a lot easier.
Get to know the two types of social funding
You do not need to become an expert, but knowing these two terms will save you a lot of confusion.
Core Supports, called Assistance with Social and Community Participation. This is support to take part now. A support worker to help you get to a day out, join a social night, or take part in a group activity today. This is where most regular social stuff sits.
Capacity Building, called Increased Social and Community Participation. This is for structured, time limited support to build your skills and confidence for the future.
Plenty of people have a bit of both. If that already sounds like a lot, do not stress. Your coordinator or plan manager can tell you which you have, and the NDIS site has the official breakdown.
→ ndis.gov.au — the official scheme site
Know what the funding actually pays for
Worth getting straight early, because it trips up almost everyone at first. The funding pays for the support to take part, not usually the activity itself.
So it covers a support worker to help you get out and join in. It does not usually cover your own entry ticket, class fee or lunch. Those are generally yours, the same as they would be for anyone heading out. The exception is some group programs where the activity cost is built into the hourly rate. A plain read on all this is here:
→ My Plan Manager — funding for community participation

Find out how your plan is managed
This one affects who you can go to. Plans are either agency managed, plan managed or self managed. It changes which providers you can use, so it is good to know early.
Plan managed and self managed plans can usually work with a wider range of providers, including ones that are not NDIS registered. Agency managed plans generally use registered providers only. If you are not sure which you are, your coordinator or plan manager will know in a heartbeat.
For the record, we work with plan managed and self managed participants.
Look for the right fit, not the first option
Here is some honest advice a lot of people wish they got sooner. You do not have to go with the first provider you find.
Take your time. Ask questions. Find a crew that actually suits the person, their age, their interests, the vibe they would feel at home in. The right fit makes all the difference, and the wrong one can put someone off getting out at all. It is completely okay to shop around, and a good provider will never make you feel bad for it.
Start small
You do not have to dive in at the deep end. One social night. One day out. See how it feels, then build from there.
The best starts are gentle. Come along, watch if you like, join in as much or as little as feels right. Confidence grows from small, good experiences stacked up over time, not from one big leap. There is no rush and no pressure.
Ask for help. That is what everyone is here for
Nobody expects you to know it all, least of all at the start. Your coordinator, your plan manager, and providers like us are all here to help you work it out. Asking questions is not a bother, it is exactly how you get the most out of your plan.
If it all still feels overwhelming, that is normal. It gets easier fast once you have got the first thing sorted and a friendly face to turn up to.
How it works with us
We are a pretty gentle place to start. We help you work out whether we fit your plan, sort the service agreement, and handle the paperwork so it is not on you. We match the support to the person, and we keep everything plain and easy. For anything to do with your actual plan and budget, we point you to your coordinator or plan manager, because that is their job.
If you are new to all this and just want a friendly chat to get started, we are happy to help. Give us a call on 1800 319 581 or email Hello@tdacvic.com. We are based in Warragul and out across Gippsland, the Mornington Peninsula and south east Melbourne.

Common questions
Where do I even start with social supports?
Start with the goals in your plan. If getting out and being social is a goal, the funding to support it is often there. Your coordinator can help you check.
What is the difference between Core and Capacity Building?
Core (Assistance with Social and Community Participation) is support to take part now. Capacity Building (Increased Social and Community Participation) is time limited support to build skills for the future. Many people have both.
Does the NDIS pay for the activity itself?
Usually just the support to take part, not your ticket or lunch. The exception is some group programs where the cost is bundled into the rate.
How do I know how my plan is managed?
Your coordinator or plan manager can tell you. It matters because it affects which providers you can use.
Do I have to commit to a provider straight away?
Not at all. Take your time, ask questions, and find the right fit. A good provider will not pressure you.
What if this all feels like too much?
That is completely normal at the start. Lean on your coordinator, your plan manager, and providers like us. It gets much easier once the first thing is sorted.